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Today is a big day. We'll be hearing a lot during the plenary business meetings today, and we'll be hearing from some of the most controversial committees - those that dealt with issues of ordination and Israel & Palestine. As I sat in these committees, and as I heard Overture Advocates, commissioners, advisory delegates and those in the open hearings all speak to these issues, I noticed one tactic being used that stood out over all others: a tactic of fear.
There is a general undercurrent of fear amidst some folks here at the assembly. This fear is often presented in the following way: "If we adopt _____, then people are going to leave the church." Or, you may have heard: "If I have to go back to my presbytery and tell them _____, I am positive that they will leave the denomination." This fear is a fear of dissent, of schism, of churches leaving the denomination over a decision that is made here in San Jose this week. I heard it from overture advocates, I heard it from YAADs, I heard it from TSADS and many others.
After hearing it so much, I can only guess that it is a tactic being used by folks from certain conservative affinity groups; by causing people to think that voting a certain way will cause the church to split, perhaps they can sway them in a different direction. After all, who wants to be the one to vote for the recommendation that will divide the church?
Over and over again, I heard it. During the Church Orders and Ministry Committee, one commissioner stated that "If this passes - we're going to bleed!" Later on, an Elder Commissioner from southern California said, "We're not going to bleed - we're going to divide. 22,000 in our presbytery will go to 4,000. San Diego will break off and make their own, Santa Barbara will make their own..."
This is a weak argument. According to numbers just recently released, the PC(USA) denomination lost 57,000 members this year - we're going to lose members regardless if we pass a recommendation to delete G-6.0106b or not. Furthermore, we're going to lose members if we DON'T pass a recommendation to delete G-6.0106b. It's not only those who are against the ordination of LGBT folk who may leave the church. There are those who are for it, those who are working for a just church, who may leave if they don't see the denomination change its ways.
When did the most important thing become the number of churches, or the number of congregants in each church? We're called to live in the way of Jesus, to seek to understand God's hopes and dreams for the world, and to live lives working for the kingdom of God. This "battle-cry" of fear, this attempt to make people think that a specific issue is going to be the one that will break apart the church, seems to be a tactic being used to create fear in the people here making decisions this week.
As we enter into this day, I'd encourage you to listen for this battle-cry. Listen to how many people try to tell us that if we recommend to remove G-6.0106b, if we take a critical stance against the State of Israel, if we do these things, our churches will be leaving in droves and they'll all want to take their property with them. As we approach these very important issues, I hope we'd listen to the wisdom of William Sloane Coffin. In his book "Letters to a Young Doubter," he has this great line that I want to share with you:
"It's always a good time to change your mind when to do so will widen your heart."
My prayer is that those in the Presbyterian Church (USA) would be known for having wide hearts. Some folks have responded privately to me that I was misjudging folks with whom I disagree. A couple responses: - I'm not speaking for the Outlook on this matter; this is my own take on this issue.
- A blog is an open forum - readers are invited to leave a comment. There is also some difference between straight news articles like you'll find in News and Analysis and blog posts.
- I wasn't saying that everyone who is against the ordination of LGBT folk is motivated by fear. I was saying that there is a group of people here at GA, who I've observed, that I think are trying to use a tactic of fear in their arguments.
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someone wrote in a reply:
"We have driven the stake into the ground so many times, we have drawn lines in the sand, and while feeling some personal victory in hurling charges at one another, questioning one another’s faith, and going through every statement with a fine-toothed comb hoping to find some error, some misstatement, something we can question dogmatically, we further crucify Jesus on the cross of our own pride and stubbornness."
It's funny how all these learned Elders forgot Jesus only asked us to go into the world and make disciples, baptising them in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. He gave us a clear picture of who will be accepted on judgement day: the ones who gave water, visited sick and imprisioned, clothed the naked and .... It's not about how we get along with members of our own faith but how we get along with members in our Christian faith. Mahatma Ghandi was quoted ( paraphrase(?), it's late and we don't have all the new upgrades for spell check yet) "I'd be a Christian if it weren't for the Christians." Seems we've been discussing the ability of people to read and study Scripture and find acceptance of who they sleep with in order to qualify to be Ministers of the Word and Sacrament we totally forgot about the one in need - physically and of God. If we'd quit looking at ourselves and focus on finding God's call for our lives, most everyone would be happy and we could have the abundant life God promised in spite of what we didn't get.
How about if the practicing homosexual wants to really make a difference as a pastor (good word to research etiologically too!), lead worship in a prison, a nursing home, a group home for developmentally disabled, make friends with homeless, visitors to the food pantry, clothes closet, elementary schools, middle schools, high schools, heck VBS and church camp. Bring them God's word, not yours, how he saved your life from sin, your soul from death with the gift of his Son on the cross at Calvary and his resurrection. Heck, how many people have you invited to church, for God's sake, that came and joined and their life was changed? What was it Martin Luther King, Jr. said (again paraphrased), "If you're going to be a street sweeper, be the best street sweeper you can." "Bloom where you are planted" is other's mantra to me.
Look for solutions to your problem you have with the established system. The other comment, same somebody, about e-mails: "At this point in time, we have substituted pronouncements for conversation. Email doesn’t help; in cyberspace, we can safely hide behind our self-erected monuments of rectitude, believing the other to be enemy."
Realize that the Presbyterian system is man's interpretation of what ecclesia looks like when only the outline is given in the Bible - something akin to the Book of Order: a member is one who participates in the work and worship of the local church; or even the Biblical reference to the marriage feast in Cana. After all, your Elder oaths included serve with imagination! Heck all I wanted to do was use gardening on the campus of our church as a segue to introduce people to the Gospel. I couldn't do it my way in the large scale we could have so I did what I could when I could. Go figure Elders would reject using God's nature to tell History.
If anyone contiues to debate the ability of practicing homosexuals to be ordained, please think first: do they need the permission for this sexual relationship (that's all it really is, I can't imagine friendship would cause such a stir) or is the guilt of their silence that great? I know the guilt in silence of my sinful, heterosexual exploits nearly killed me.
Thank God for his grace and mercy to give me ears to hear and eyes to see the error of my ways through people who loved me enough to tell me the truth and graced with patience to see me through to the other side. To Him only belongs the Glory and Praise!!